December 19, 2009

Another Adventure

Let me tell you about my last 24 hours.

I decided several weeks ago that I would take my hubby on a romantic weekend to the mountains for his birthday. We planned on staying here, mainly because it was friendly to our budget, but also because it was so close to Asheville and many fabulous other places. We were giddy with excitement when we left yesterday morning. This was supposed to be our first vacation alone, as husband and wife, in over two and a half years.

Little did we know, when we planned the trip, it would snow this weekend. We started out on our journey optimistically, hoping we would get to our final destination before the weather got too bad. We drove for at least two hours before we saw the first snowflake. It was a tiny, cute snowflake. Then, before we knew it it was raining and sleeting more than it was snowing. The roads got slushy, but I never thought or felt like we were in any danger.


After about half an hour driving in slush, the weather changed quickly and it was a beautiful dry snow. It was barely sticking to the side of the road. We were still optimistic, and really excited about staying in the mountains with snow.

Within the next hour, at least two inches of snow collected on the ground, and the road starts to become a little scary. Brad decided not to change lanes on the interstate because the car would slide and it was, um, scary. We called Ridgecrest just to make sure that we will be able to get up the mountain, and Brad starts to say things like "I hope we can make it there!"


We are less than ten miles from our exit when traffic comes to a complete stop. We are barely past the last exit before the exit that we are supposed to get off of, and we we are about 50 yards from being off of the bridge. I'm still hopeful that we will make it. In the last few miles we had seen at least a dozen cars that had slid off the road, and I just assumed that traffic was stopped because they were trying to maneuver around other stranded vehicles.

Mr. Man in the Black Coat was a local who felt the need to walk up and down the highway to inform people what was going on. He told us that a tractor trailer had flipped a few miles up. He also told us that we were at the bottom of Black Mountain, and our destination was at the top of the mountain. Still hopeful though...


We sit in the car, and I decide to take some pictures. One hour passes...

Brad starts calling his father who lives in a neighboring town to see if he could find out any information for us. I start calling friends to google the closest hotel. None of the cars have move an inch, and snow is really starting to cover the car. Also, another two inches has collected on the ground.


Before long, I can't even see out of the windshield. (If you notice on our GPS, we only have 6.4 miles to go!)

Finally Brad decides that we need to move to Plan B, because we are quickly realizing that we might have to spend the night on the interstate. About 5 cars in front of us can't go anywhere because the cars are too close to each other because of the on-ramp. About 5 cars behind us are stuck on the bridge. We've been sitting there for about 2 hours now.

I convince Brad that we might have a chance to escape if we ride in the emergency lane and go up (the wrong way) the on-ramp. It was risky, but we had seen two cars already do it. When I say cars, I mean an F-250, and an SUV had risked driving in almost 5 inches of snow. We decided the risk of getting stuck, and possibly rolling down a hill looked better than spending the night on the interstate. We also were running very low on gas.


We did it, and we made it. We were able to pull into a nasty little gas station that had a name like Fred's Fast Fill-up. Brad started to pump gas, while I went to get in line for the bathroom, which by the way, was wrapped around the store. Before I could make it to the bathroom, Brad had to come get me to drive the car while he pushed it back into the parking lot. (Let's count how many times this happens, #1)

We both get back in line for the bathroom. Most of the people that we talk to are still stuck on the interstate, and walked to the gas station. The locals tell us that the hotel (a place called Joppa Lodge) that our friends found us on google, doesn't exist. So we are going to have to go 8 miles back to the next exit to look for another hotel.

We said a little prayer for all of the cars still stuck on the interstate. We said a little prayer that our car could make it only eight more miles.

Brad was really focused.

We had gone about three of the eight miles when things started getting rough. The car started shaking, and Brad had to try really hard to keep it from sliding in a ditch. He didn't have a lot of control over where the car was going. We decided that we had accumulated too much snow on the tires and we needed to get out an scrape the tires. This might be a good time to tell you that I was not dressed to be out in the snow scraping a car.

After using a Wendy's cup to scrape the back windshield, and our bare hands to wipe the tires off, we thought we had done enough to get us five more miles down the road. The car still wouldn't go anywhere, so Brad had to push us to a rolling start and then jump in the car (#2).

We drive the last five miles, only stopping two more times (#3 & #4) to push the car up I-40. Because it is so dark, we can't see anything, so we pull into a much cleaner, and well-lit gas station, only to find out that there is no hotel anywhere on this exit. We are close to Brad's dad's house, but we would have to drive on several rural mountain roads to get there.

I wish you could have seen the fear in our eyes. I have never been more scared in my life. We barely made it to this exit, and our three remaining options were to try to make it to Brad's dad's house (we knew that wouldn't happen), try to go to the next exit because we were told there definitely was a hotel there, or sleep at the gas station. In a moment of insanity, we decided three more miles up I-40 couldn't be much worse than what we had just been through.

In those three miles, we had to push the car two more times. (#5 & #6) The snow was coming down so hard at this point we couldn't see anything in front of us. We took a guess at where the exit was, and prayed we were right. We came very close to driving in a ditch because we couldn't tell where the road was, but fortunately the hotel was immediately off of the exit. We pulled into the hotel parking lot just enough so the rear of our car wasn't sticking out in the road. The snow was so thick, we couldn't go anywhere else.

Brad went inside the lobby to see if there was any room in the Inn. There was a line over half an hour long just to get a room. After a lot of waiting and nerve-wrecking moments, we finally had a hotel room. We didn't have to spend the night on the side of I-40 after all. But our night was still far from over.

Our room was located at the back of the hotel, and there was no way that we could even make it back there. We decided that we should push our car one more time (#7) down the road to a gas station because they would probably scrape that parking lot before they would scrape the hotel parking lot. Brad had to get some help to push the car out into the road, while I drove and let it coast down the hill. I was able to pull the car far enough into the parking lot, and then it slid into a snowdrift.

As Brad was walking down the hill to come get me, I realized that it would be nearly impossible to carry our luggage a quarter of a mile back up the hill to our hotel, so I was trying to decide what we needed to take with us. I figured we could do without our clothes, so we grabbed our toiletry bag, and few other things. It felt like we had to hike up an entire mountain just to make it to the hotel. Brad had to walk in front of me to try to shield me from the snow because it was stinging my face, it was snowing so hard!

We were in the parking lot of the hotel when I had my first breakdown of the night. I was sliding and falling everywhere. I began crying and dropping the bags that I was carrying. Brad had to bring out a little tough love to inspire to keep moving. We were oh so close, and I was so ready to give up.
(This is the view from our room, you can see the gas station down the road.)

We made it to the room, but we didn't think about the fact that we would be soaking wet from hiking in the snow, so I was regretting not bringing a change of clothes. After much deliberating, we decided that Brad would go back out into the blizzard and get his suitcase because we knew that I could wear some of his clothes, but he couldn't wear any of mine. I laid on the bed a cried. When I finally calmed down I started hearing some awful beeping noise. By the time that Brad got back, I realized that our smoke detector battery was dead.

My amazing husband headed back into the blizzard to go to the lobby to see if they could give us another battery. The lobby was so busy and so crazy that he couldn't even get in the door. He came back to the room, and we ate Doritos and gas station hot dogs for dinner.

After another hour, my ears were ringing from the beeping noise every 15 seconds. We called
the front desk to see if they would save our sanity. Within 30 seconds of our call, a very grumpy and unpatriotic (if you know what I mean...) man came busting through the door, ripped the smoke detector off the wall, threw it in a drawer and slammed the door behind him.

We decided that we'd had enough excitement for one day and fell asleep watching Pirates of the Caribbean.

So much for a romantic weekend away with my hubby. I don't know if I've said this in my out-loud voice yet, but I am so ready to say good-bye to 2009!

November 20, 2009

Benedetto


Just a few of the new things on my Etsy site:







Go check it out!

November 19, 2009

Taking a breather...

Remember that time that I thought I would be a good blogger and post a few times a week, maybe even every other day...Haha!


Seriously, my life has been super busy. It's 7:45 in the morning and this is the best time I've found to blog. But I don't have long, I'm just taking a little breather from the chaos to tell you I'm still alive.

I will probably forget to blog about any of these events but since I last posted here are a few random things that have happened or will happen in the Brock household...

Halloween: Brad and I dressed up as Day & Night. We pulled our costumes together in about 15 minutes (that includes a trip to Target) and we only spent about $14 total. It was probably the corniest thing we've ever done, but the kids at the Fall Festival loved it. And it's all about the kids.

On the job front: Still working for the same company (bead store) but I got a promotion. Yay! This also means I'm working more hours though. Boo!

B's Health: B & I realized that we have not gone for longer than two weeks this entire year without one of us having to go to some kind of doctor. B is currently still going for post-op checkups for his wound every other week. It is still not healed. AND the doctor says if he isn't seeing anymore healing soon, then he's sending us back to the hospital for a little more attention. Please, pretty please, can you pray my man heals soon! This last visit wouldn't be too serious. However, if we do have to go, it will cost more $$$, and it would be the fourth tally of our hospital visits this year. My nerves and my sanity would like that number to stay at three.

My health: Nothing. Absolutely nothing to report. Nothing good, anyway.

A Positive note: My little jewelry business is thriving! My mom and I just had a booth at the Seminary Craft and Bake Sale, and rocked it! My husband is dreaming big for me, and I am getting lots of orders. So I'm busy! I will be adding more stuff, slowly but surely up to my Etsy site. I'm hoping to add more stuff tonight. Check it daily for updates!

And for fun: A video of Brad and Layla (our neighbor's daughter) playing with a laser pointer. Samuel, Layla's daddy is holding the laser pointer. Brad and Samuel didn't even practice what they were going to do...




Ok, I really need to go get ready for work now! Have a fabulous day!

October 27, 2009

Pass it On

My mother is one of the most creative people I know. She is also one of the strongest. Life has not dealt her an easy hand, but she has handled everything with such amazing grace, dignity, and inner beauty that I can only dream of being half of the woman that she is. So I wasn't the least bit surprised when she shared with me her calling to give her gift of creativity back to the Lord. Many of you may have already seen her new ministry called Pass it On, but for those of you who haven't, I encourage you to go check it out for yourself. She is offering one of her free handmade cards to everyone who links her button to their blog or facebook!

All you need to do is go to her blog, and get the code (in her sidebar) and put it in a new html gadget on your sidebar.
Easy, peasy. Lemon, squeezy.

She will send you a FREE card just for linking to her blog! Her new ministry is such a great way to send a small blessing to someone! After you've linked to her blog, make sure you go back to her blog and leave a comment so she knows where to send your FREE card!

Mama, I'm so proud of you! Thanks for giving me just a smidgen of your creativity!

October 15, 2009

Move mountain, move.

"He replied, because you have such little faith,"
"I tell you the truth, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed,"

"You can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there' and it will move."

"Nothing will be impossible for you."
Matthew 17:20

*The mustard seed is nestled in the middle of the starburst charm. Do you see it? It is hung from hand-sewn silk cord. More to come soon!*

October 10, 2009

Really Quick...

I wanted to show you two things really quick, because if I don't go to the grocery store soon my husband might have to gnaw off his right arm for dinner.

#1:
We found this old window at one of the new antique stores in downtown Wake Forest today. I want to use it to display jewelry at the Craft & Bake Sale coming up! Brad looked at me and thought I was joking when I batted my eyes and begged him to buy it for me. Seriously though, someone that is crafty, please tell me what a steal this is?! I will post more pictures of it when I am finished making it a display piece.

#2
I am starting to make some jewelry with this. I know it might be a little far-fetched to imagine jewelry made out of seeds. But just wait...I am giddy with excitement to show it to you! I have to wait for it to cure first though.

Okay, now I really need to go to the store!

A weekend with the family.

Here is my favorite picture from our weekend in Pigeon Forge, TN with my entire family. We had such a wonderful time with everyone!
We laughed together.
We talked about wedding plans!
I got lots of good snuggle time with my Brownie girls!
I got to feel my littlest niece move!
We hugged, a lot!
And then we had to leave.
Our trip was way too short, but it was so nice to have everyone together.

I can't wait until Thanksgiving!

You can see more pictures from our trip here. My sister made a great slide show with most of my pictures, but Blogger won't let me upload more than one.

October 2, 2009

What I should have said...

I should have said, "Jaime, I refuse to blog until you come pick up these maternity clothes!" Because they are still displayed on my couch like that picture, waiting for her to come hold out on her end of the deal. Not really, but that makes for a good mental picture doesn't it? In her defense, she was a little scared to come to my land, since I got the swine flu right after my last post.

In reality, I've kinda been avoiding my blog for a while. This happens quite a bit, and I've discovered that I'm not really good at jumping back into this after a few weeks absence. However, I have excellent excuses this time. I've been dealing with some things emotionally, and I honestly I haven't felt like talking about it much. I have started 5 posts in the last 5 weeks, but haven't found the words to finish them.


Like always, there has been plenty going on to blog about. You know us, we really know how to live it up with some excitement. (Did I mention that I had the swine flu?) But honestly, I have been discouraged the last couple of weeks. I hate to use the word depressed, so I am going to choose my words carefully. If you aren't new to the blog (which I am sure all 3 of my readers aren't) then you should know that we are struggling with infertility. Nasty, ugly infertility. And lately, I have started to believe some of the lies of Satan. I have many days where I am discouraged and bitter. For many weeks, I have tried to separate myself from the world, and hide in my own pain, sorrow, and emotions.

But My Savior has really been working on my heart lately. I have always known that there is a reason that we are riding on this roller coaster. I don't always like it, but despite my mood or how well I handle it, I know that God is faithful. I said a long time ago, that I wanted to share our story. Somewhere along the way, I started to make it more about me, and everything that I was going through. I realized recently that this wasn't about me, or even me and Brad. This isn't my story. And the things that have happened over the last year, aren't just stumbling blocks that have gotten in the way of us living the life that we want. They are all a part of the glorious plan that Christ has for us. (Jeremiah 29:11)

While I've been busy trying to hide from life, I realized that I was missing out on it. I am going to try to be more real with you. Because, that is LIFE! I will continue to share His story of our lives, but I hope you won't think less of me when I share about the difficult times as well. I have been hesitant to say:
I cried today.
or
I saw I pregnant woman at the store, and had to turn and walk the other way.
or
She's having a little boy, my heart hurts to hold a little boy that looks like Brad.

Like I said earlier, this is a roller coaster. There are good days and the bad days must come too. In a little while, we are going to pack up the car and head to the mountains. We are meeting my family for the weekend. I am looking forward to some much needed time away. I can't wait to come back refreshed and ready to continue on this journey.

I guess what I should have said was "I'm back!"

August 22, 2009

The post where I bribe my sister.

Jaime, because I am such an awesome sister, I picked up a few things for you today.
Maternity clothes!
3 pairs of jeans
1 black dress
1 pregnancy tank top
4 shirts
1 black skirt
1 pair of casual pants
1 rockin' cool blue pair of pants

But if you want them, you have to bring my nieces to come see me. Seriously, I need them both to come to my land, so I can love on them. You can come also if you want, because then I can love on Baby Jose too. So, what do you think? Deal or no deal?

August 18, 2009

Surgery Update

Thanks for all your thoughts and prayers. Everything went really well, and we got excellent news from the doctor. We were pleasantly surprised to find out that I do NOT have any endometriosis. The doctor did find an adhesion that was connecting my uterus to another structure in my body which could have caused the pain that I'd been feeling for several months. She also found some scar tissue from the ectopic pregnancy, however neither of my tubes have any blockage. I'm still trying to get over this soreness, but other than that, I'm doing well! We could not be more blessed right now with the love and encouragement from our family and friends, and our Almighty continues to show us that He is in control, and His plan is so much better than ours!

August 13, 2009

So you don't have to look at those other pictures.

Here are a few items that I recently posted on my Etsy site.  





Please go see them for yourself!  I also will do custom orders and jewelry repair!

Take a guess...

Guess who didn't go to sleep until 3:00AM this morning?  And then woke up bright-eyed and bushy-tailed...

This poor girl.

And guess who is in the bed still snoring?
This lucky fellow.

And I'm addicted to YearbookYourself.com

I got Brad to play my game.  
I called out an emotion, and then we snapped a picture with the webcam.  I was snorting I was laughing so hard!
Too cool for school.

Be yourself.

Frightened.

Cheesy

He made this face on his own.
Bummed.

That's all I've got for you.  In case you're worried about my addiction, these were taken last night, and I'm going to try to limit myself today.  

As for going back to sleep, I don't know about that.  Today, I am on an all liquids diet.  My first thought this morning when I woke up after 4.5 hours of sleep was "I sure am hungry."  I'm going to drink some Sprite and then craft.  Maybe that will keep my mind off of it.  I probably should clean too, because Baby Jose, and my Mama are coming to see me tomorrow!
Scroll down to my last post and play my game! 

August 12, 2009

Because this is the better option.

I spent two hours last night writing a  new blog post.  After I had written it, I realized that I sounded a little self absorbed and pretty pathetic.  I might have complained a little bit, and I know that I definitely got a few things off my chest.  But I deleted it.  There are lots of things that have been going on lately at my household, and last night I was not in an emotional state to be journaling positive thoughts.  Today has kinda been a crummy day too.  But you don't want to hear about that.  So, I thought this would be a better option.

I Yearbook'd myself.  Enjoy.
Oh, snap!  They claim this photo was from 1990, but I know they took it of me last week.  My hair looks like this when I wake up.  
But don't worry.  I'm trying to grow out my hair so I can do this with it.

Let's play the Emotions Game.  I will call out an emotion, and you must immediately make the first face that comes to mind.  

Pain.
Thoughtful.
Stern.
Fear.
Surprised.
Confused.
Perky.
Manly.

Happy.  (Because your forehead is so big.)
Ok, so all of those weren't emotions, but it was a fun game wasn't it?
Ok, now it's your turn to go play the game here.  I promise it will make you feel better!  Post your pictures on your blog or Facebook.

And if you think about it, say a little prayer for me tomorrow and Friday.  I will be having surgery to hopefully diagnose and treat Endometriosis.  And I must do a "prep" for surgery tomorrow that involves not one, but two bottles of magnesium citrate.  I won't go into much detail for your sake about that.  I'll keep you updated on the results and recovery! Until then, I'm going to be waiting on someone else to play my game.

August 1, 2009

And the winner is...

Cheri!!

Congratulations!!!

Thanks everyone for participating!  All of your comments were very sweet!  

To answer some of your questions:
1.  Yes, I can do initials, monograms, and anything that can be stamped or written for that matter.
2.  I am going to be making a lot more cuffs to sell on my etsy site.  That was the first cuff that I made, and I want to perfect it a little before I sell it.  
3.  Buttercup, I know we will definitely be seeing each other in early October, but if we could work something in before that, it would be fabulous!

I will definitely have to do another giveaway soon.  If only for the fact that it makes my husband incredibly excited to get to draw a name.   

Cheri, if you could send me an email at LibAnna05@aol.com and let me know where you would like me to send your necklace!

Thanks again!!